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You're letting go of this idea of carrying your own child, of having that kind of bond. You won't be able to breast-feed. You won't be able to feel them move, letting go of the concept that you won't be able to carry your own child is really hard. It's really emotional, and I don't think there's anything wrong with adoption. If I could afford it, I would absolutely be all over it, but it's one of those things where I don't think it's fair that people assume that just because you can't have kids you are now responsible to go and adopt.