Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Season 3

Xander:
But ... it's just that it's bugging me ... this cool thing. I mean, what is it? How do you get it? Who doesn't have it? And who decides who doesn't have it? What is the essence of "cool"?

Oz:
Not sure.

Xander:
I mean you, yourself, Oz, are considered more or less cool. Why is that?

Oz:
Am I?

Xander:
Is it about the talking? You know, the way you tend to express yourself in short, non-committal phrases?

Oz:
Could be.

Xander:
No, you're in a band! That's like a business class ticket to cool with complementary mojo after takeoff. I gotta learn an instrument. Is it hard to play guitar?

Oz:
Not the way I play it.

Xander:
Okay, but on the other hand, eighth grade: I'm takin' the flugelhorn and gettin' zero trim. So the whole instrument thing could be a mislead. But ya need a thing. One thing nobody else has. What do I have?

Oz:
An exciting new obsession, which I feel makes you very special.