Gossip Girl, Season 1

Nate:
It's exactly what he [Carter] said. The money, the drugs, the privileges, they're just keeping us numb, so we don't notice it's better out there in the real world.

Chuck:
The real world? Everyone out there wants to be us. We are what you aspire to, not run away from.

Nate:
[Scoffs] You really don't get me do you?

Chuck:
That dream of yours, what is it really? Cause I hear you talk about how you don't wanna go to Dartmouth and how you don't wanna follow in your father's footsteps, but what exactly do you want?

Nate:
All I know is it's not this.

Chuck:
Well you better discover what it is before you throw everything away trying to find it.