Smallville, Season 4

Clark:
Dad, you raised me to make my own decisions. Why don't you trust me on this?

Jonathan:
Because you are a lot like me. I had a full ride to Met. U. waiting for me when I graduated. Problem is, my father needed me on this farm. So I stayed.

Clark:
Dad that's a pretty big footnote to leave out. Why didn't you tell me?

Jonathan:
I didn't want it to weigh you down. As much as I loved my father, a part of me still resents him for needing me that much. I don't want you to feel that. That's not the kind of father I ever wanted to be.

Clark:
Dad. This isn't about the kind of father you are. It's about the kind of son I want to be.