Star Trek: Voyager1995

Ensign Harry Kim:
You once told me that you used to treat life like one big game: rules, players, winners, losers. You never took any of it seriously, until you lost.

Tom Paris:
You know, you're starting to annoy me.

Ensign Harry Kim:
You also told me you were afraid of what would happen to you, if you didn't take Captain Janeway up on her offer. Now I see why.

Tom Paris:
What do you see - Ensign?

Ensign Harry Kim:
A loser... and a drunk.

[Paris tries to punch him; Kim parries the blow and twists Paris's arm on his back]

Ensign Harry Kim:
I guess, in this reality... that's all you'll ever be.