Grey's Anatomy, Season 8

Webber:
Bailey says you're declaring general.

Meredith:
Actually, I'm not sure anymore.

Webber:
Oh. Oh, I thought it was a done deal. I mean, it makes sense since you're––

Meredith:
Because of my mother. I know. Don't you mention her, too. That's all anyone ever says it's in my blood, it's my legacy. That's why I don't want to do it. I don't want to be like my mother.

Webber:
Meredith, look at everything you did today this party for your daughter, what you did for me in that O.R. You don't have to ever worry about being anything like your mother. I knew her, and you're nothing like your mother. You have a gift. Don't waste it.