Orange Is the New Black, Season 3

[Red has come to Healy's office]

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
I need to add my lawyer to my visitation list.

Sam Healy:
You having problems with your case?

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
No. And please take my husband off my list.

Sam Healy:
[gesturing to the seat in front of him] Why don't you have a seat, Red?

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
I won't be staying. But thank you.

Sam Healy:
Please... Sit. [annoyed, she does so] You want to tell me what's going on?

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
I married a pillow. Soft, lumpy, and always lying behind my back.

Sam Healy:
Words like "always" are absolutes. And using them is a way to reinforce what we wanna believe. When speaking emotionally, absolutes can be dangerous.

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
Good advice. Thank you. Please add my lawyer and remove my husband.

Sam Healy:
You know, Red... Marriage is a two-way street.

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
And you can't swim without getting wet. See, I can say cliches too. Ha!

Sam Healy:
You owe it to your younger self to explore those things that made you wanna marry this man in the first place. You may find that they're still there.

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
I owe my younger self 23 years of wild sex with multiple partners. But I'll settle for my name back.

Sam Healy:
You made a lifelong commitment. That's sacred.

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
You don't know my story, Healy, and you don't know what he's done. [In Russian] Cocksucker.

Sam Healy:
[in a sharp tone, startling her] Hey! Language! [angrily] I know what that word means, and it's not okay to refer to your husband, or any other man that way. [as she stares at him in shock, he rises from his seat] You know, you huff in here... Like some put-upon martyr... Like a smile would break your face, trivialising a man's emotions. What is that? Some kind of a Russian thing or something?

Galina "Red" Reznikov:
What the hell does that -?

Sam Healy:
Hey! Language! Again! That's the last time I'm gonna warn you, Mrs. Reznikov. [comes round to the front of his desk] You forget where you are... Just like you forget that your husband has a stake in this too? Just because he made some mistakes doesn't mean you can run off and go sleep in your mother's room at the first sign of white caps on the ocean!